Dear Ang

In honor of my big brother turning 40 today, it would seem there is time and purpose to reminisce. And I think I would pen a letter to myself...

Dear Ang,

I can tell you that you are currently in a place you would never expect to live. It's not space, but sometimes it feels as foreign to you as that might be. You struggle to breathe here, but in due time, you are thriving.

What are the things I would tell you...

Henry the Second will be your most favorite car. Enjoy all the moments, road trips, and window smashings you will encounter. (Because apparently everyone else knows Henry rocks, too.)

When you become a mother, do ONLY what YOU want, and can, do. Do not listen, nor often seek, the advice of others. At least not until your kids hit the elementary years. Before that it's anybody's guess and your guess is just as good as the next guy, if not better. ☺

Higher education is a great avenue for success and an admirable achievement. It will, however, never define the person you are. Remember that when you compare yourself to others. For the next 20 years. You are going to be SUPER proud of that associates degree. 👍

Your life will not be anything like you imagined, and it will shape you to be strong and independent. Relish every difficult moment. You will not believe this for years to come, but, emotional or not, you are fierce. Truly. And sassy.

Most importantly, Ang, know that forgiveness will be one of your toughest lifelong battles. You know it today, and twenty years from now, it is not any better. Because everything is personal, it is hard to suture the wounds. Some people absolutely mean to harm you. And they will. But some people will hurt you as a byproduct. Do not be stubborn. Do NOT be stubborn. Be humble. Give grace. Be merciful. You will never be like Jesus with that strong will of yours... He knew how to be a rebel appropriately. You do not. 😂 Be moldable. Be gentle. FORGIVE. Let go. Today. And everyday.

You are in for a treat - you have two amazing children, a devoted husband, and friends from here-to-there who love your whole heart, despite your many flaws. You have been given beauty for ashes.

Love,
Ang